Monday, November 30, 2015

Cyber Monday Sale 2015


Cyber Monday is here and to celebrate, I'm offering up my very first Cyber Monday sale...

 

Today only, save $20 on tincture service with the purchase of a placenta encapsulation package!

 

Tincture is an excellent way to preserve the benefits of your placenta for extended use.  A small section of the raw placenta is selected and tinctured in 100 proof vodka for 6 weeks.  The solution is then strained and the remaining pure tincture can be used for years to come.  It is a great remedy  during times of stress, transition, and even for the treatment PMS symptoms when your cycle returns.  Many mothers save it for use during menopause as it is a great, all-natural way to balance hormones at any time during your life.

 

To take advantage of this sale, contact me today!

Monday, November 16, 2015

Do You NEED a Doula?

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"Do you need a doula?"


I've seen that question swirling around the internet lately.  I've seen it in my doula groups.  I've seen it in my mom groups.  I've seen it pop up on Facebook.  I've heard many, many different answers from many different women.  But I wanted to weigh in myself.

No, a woman does not NEED a doula.


We actually need very few things in this life: food, water, shelter. etc.  A doula is not on that list.

As a doula, I don't consider myself a necessary component of a woman's birth.  After all, women give birth every day, all over this planet, without a doula present.  Some women love their birth experiences, some don't.  But they managed to give birth without someone reminding them of their affirmations and doing hip squeezes for them.

 

Think about it- what are we saying about women and their abilities if we go around saying they NEED a doula?  Don't women have the inner strength to achieve the birth they desire?  I think they do.



As a doula, I support the laboring woman and her choices.  I don't save them from their hospital.  I don't save them from their doctor.  I don't save them from intervention or save them from themselves.  I support them and their decisions, whether I agree with them or not.  Because it's not my birth and I trust and respect my client enough to honor the choices she has made.

I believe women are perfectly capable of having a fantastic birth experience without me.  Now, that's not to say that I can't make a difference at a birth.  You bet I can.  I can offer wisdom, support, guidance and a mean double-hip squeeze.  But these are luxuries, not necessities.